On memory and the things worth keeping
We Didn't Know the Password. We Never Got the Photos Back.
Thousands of family photos, trapped behind a passcode nobody wrote down. It happens more than you'd think — and there's no customer support line that fixes it.
What to Do When You Can't Remember Someone's Voice
You'll keep their face for decades. Their voice goes first, quietly, without warning. What still works years later, what to save today, and the one phrase only they said.
How to Preserve the Memory of a Parent You Had a Complicated Relationship With
Most guides about grief assume you only loved the person you lost. This one is for the harder, more honest version of that story.
Keeping the Memory of Someone You Lost to Alcohol
What to say, what to leave out, and how to remember the whole person, not only the illness. Gentle guidance for families writing about a loss to alcohol.
Somewhere to keep it
Stella Memoria is a page in memory of someone you loved — their photographs, their story, and what other people remember about them, kept together in one place. You write it a little at a time, and it stays online.